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GAsoccerman · 03-25-2008, 08:45 AM

Ok I am not going to throw you under the bus saying it's wrong.

What it is...New and exciting. AhHH the old friend....been there done that.

I am planning our 20 year class reunion with a woman that I was friends with in HS, well sinc HS we barely talked, now we been talking almost daily, we are both married, both have three kids the same ages....

She was GEORGOUS in HS and I told her that...She was like why didn't you ask me out then? I told her because back then I had Low self esteem and never thought of myself as good looking, She said, Oh I thought you were Hot and Funny as can be, I would have loved to dated you back in HS....So we got that out of the way....Hey wait we are both married with three kids, both love our spouses to death....So we had a good laugh over it, and we got back to work on the reunion stuff, No harm no foul.

Now as I said we talk daily, talk about old friends, life, kids, etc. Every day I ask her for a sexy Bikini shot....she tells me it's in the mail....The running joke between us two, you mother's know how it is. But Sure her hubby got a little jealous...after he talked to me for a little bit and I invited them all to my house or to join us on a cruise and me and him could go drink together, he was fine, Plus after seeing how Georgous my wife was, he was ok as Long as I can hang out with your wife ...I said sure. He knew it was all good fun, nothing more, so we all are friends now.

But back to you....It's new and exciting, a old friend.....give it time....the excitment will wear off, it always does. I would not go derailing a good marriage for this.

One thing I learned from myspace is I ahve some old friend that thought I was better looking then I possibly imagined. Same for my wife, I always new she was beautiful, but she always saw herself as cute.

But old friends that come into our lies, especially of the opposite sex, get those butterflies going and the whole, "what if" .....enjoy the moment, but don't go off the deepend, you will realize soon enough that no marriage is perfect and that it needs work, and you married your hubby for a good reason, and bank on that. Kids always make life harder and strain a relationship.

I would say chat with the friend On-line only, leave it as friends only. Nothing wrong with a good friend.

03-25-2008, 08:45 AM	#8 (permalink)
GAsoccerman Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Georgia Posts: 434	Re: what do i do? Ok I am not going to throw you under the bus saying it's wrong. What it is...New and exciting. AhHH the old friend....been there done that. I am planning our 20 year class reunion with a woman that I was friends with in HS, well sinc HS we barely talked, now we been talking almost daily, we are both married, both have three kids the same ages.... She was GEORGOUS in HS and I told her that...She was like why didn't you ask me out then? I told her because back then I had Low self esteem and never thought of myself as good looking, She said, Oh I thought you were Hot and Funny as can be, I would have loved to dated you back in HS....So we got that out of the way....Hey wait we are both married with three kids, both love our spouses to death....So we had a good laugh over it, and we got back to work on the reunion stuff, No harm no foul. Now as I said we talk daily, talk about old friends, life, kids, etc. Every day I ask her for a sexy Bikini shot....she tells me it's in the mail....The running joke between us two, you mother's know how it is. But Sure her hubby got a little jealous...after he talked to me for a little bit and I invited them all to my house or to join us on a cruise and me and him could go drink together, he was fine, Plus after seeing how Georgous my wife was, he was ok as Long as I can hang out with your wife ...I said sure. He knew it was all good fun, nothing more, so we all are friends now. But back to you....It's new and exciting, a old friend.....give it time....the excitment will wear off, it always does. I would not go derailing a good marriage for this. One thing I learned from myspace is I ahve some old friend that thought I was better looking then I possibly imagined. Same for my wife, I always new she was beautiful, but she always saw herself as cute. But old friends that come into our lies, especially of the opposite sex, get those butterflies going and the whole, "what if" .....enjoy the moment, but don't go off the deepend, you will realize soon enough that no marriage is perfect and that it needs work, and you married your hubby for a good reason, and bank on that. Kids always make life harder and strain a relationship. I would say chat with the friend On-line only, leave it as friends only. Nothing wrong with a good friend.