shld b in ga

Hi! I am new here. My husband and I have been married for just under a year. We met just under 2 years ago. My husband was the perfect husband but in the last 4 months he has changed completely. He used to put me first & care about my feelings...now he completely ignores me and doesn't care about my feelings on anything. I do love him with all my heart.

My problem: I am still in love with a guy that I was in a relationship with for over 7 years. Him & I haven't seen each other since 2004 but we have kept in contact. We talk every day and he tells me every day that he loves me & wants me to come back home to him in Georgia.

I have already made arrangements for a 3 day visit with him in Georgia and told my husband that I had meetings for work down there. I know I am wrong for doing what I am doing but I feel I have to visit with this guy to see exactly what feelings are left.

Can I get anyones opinion on this? I would love for my marriage to work but I just don't feel like I can handle not getting the attention and not having my husband care about my feelings. I have tried to explain that I need him to care about my feelings but he doesn't care..he simply says if you want to be somewhere else then go...which doesn't make it any easier on me.