| | Re: Wife wants me out..
You really do need to stay in your home. That is where your children live rigith? Do not leave your children, not without talking to a lawyer first. It could put in a very bad place when it comes to divorce and custody.
Can you really afford to get your own place and support your children and her? Do not put that financial strain on yourself right now.
Stay with your children.
If you have to move into a room in the house. So what if she does not talk to you. Just be a friend... do good things for her for a while. And spend as much time as you can with your kids.
Many marriages recover even when at the point your is at.
Since she is in an affair, tell her that she has two choices... either she stays in the house with you, stops all contact with her affair partner or she leaves. Those are your choices.
Legally neither of you can kick the other out of the family/marital home. It takes a court order and the court usually will not do it until the divorce is final.
If you leave your are helping her continue her affair. Your could also be handing her custody of your children.
Gather evidence of the affair. Talk to an attorney about what you need if you can use infidelity as a reason for divorce.
Once you have irrefutable evidence of the affair, expose it. Tell the other man’s wife. When you do this he will then be focuses on trying to save his marriage. Tell his family and ask them to help you with getting our wife to end her affair. Tell your family. Tell friends. Tell his employer…. That he is using his job to seduce your wife.
But whatever you do not move out right now.