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Your husband will have to learn to trust you again. He'll need to talk to his therapist, about whether he actually wants to do this. You did the right thing by immediately telling him everything, and then taking steps to end all contact with this other person.

Then you must ask yourself, what were you looking for when you got 'cyber' involved with this man?

Stop beating yourself up about being to blame for the breakup of your marriage. It takes two to make a marriage work, and two to break it up. Something was already seriously lacking in your relationship for this to happen, and it is just a symptom of the marriage failure, not the cause. This is what you both must find out.

It's going to be a long hard road, and you will both have to make a huge effort. I hope it works out. Good luck!