| | Re: Newlywed desperate for help!!!
Marry me! Just kidding! Sounds like you are a responsible stand up kind of guy. And if divorce is where you are headed it's a lot easier without kids involved. From a females POV, yes birth control can cause all kinds of issues. When I started on them it was almost like an out of body experience, I could see that I was being nasty but couldn't do anything to stop it. It took me years to find the right ones that did not cause any issues. But honestly, that might not be her problem. Sounds like she isn't happy either. I know that for myself, when I'm happy I make sure everyone around me is happy. But when I'm miserable or depressed, I just stay away and shut down. You need to be honest with her and leave the emotions at the door so she can really hear you.