I agree with Proud. Sure they can hurt too...and much of that is often because of GUILT, loss, and change.
However, it's not a feeling of rejection. Of being unwanted and tossed away like trash. They hurt sure....but it's a much less significant caliber of hurt compared to the dumpee.
The dumper is also very unsympathetic to that too...at least mine was. She literally told me to "stop playing the victim" about the situation lol.
Omg....my husband said that about stop playing the victim. He's just as much of a victim too. I also heard, I'm not happy how this all turned out for me. Wtf....he made the decision to leave....he choose not to talk to me....he choose to divorce....how did I make that decision for him? Posted via Mobile Device