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Old 03-04-2012, 07:34 AM   #130 (permalink)
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Default Re: Told the OMW, update

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Originally Posted by thrway214 View Post
The full package is going out this week. Two things have changed: my wife says she needs to move out of the house for a few days, and two, she said she didn't care if I sent the whole package, because she isn't friends with OM anymore.

I sometimes feel like the detoxing/defogging has begun, and my w is saying a few things in the right direction. But I continue to see a lot of blame shifting, rationalization etc. she is still not prepared for total transparency. She isn't putting kids first. It is still all about her.

50% chance of filing in two weeks. This chick still thinks I am not serious.
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Nothing has changed except she's leaving you. Duh

Your posts reek of neediness, weakness, clingyness. Of course she doesn't think you will file. Neither do I. At least in the near future. You tell her everything. You will be on the floor groveling next. Don't you see your actions are making her want to run from you? You have literally been out maned by a geriatric old man. They have made you their *****.

She sats she doesn't care if you send him the texts. She's LYING She no longer cares for him.. LYYYYYYYYIIIINNNNGGGG.

The only thing you have accomplished with talking to her is............. she's moving out.

You have put your head in the sand. If you don't pull it out now, kiss your family goodbye.

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