GAsoccerman

Ok, I fully agree with Drac above, all good solid points.

But I wish to add...

Now I see you have alot of hobbies....Does your wife share any interest in these same hobbies?

Does she have Hobbies of her own? that you may help out with?

Do you have kids? If so how many and how old? How long married? Does she work or stay at home mom (still work) and female friends she hangs out with or couples that you both hang out with?

What does your wife like to do? Ask her to write a list of places she would like to visit with in the state or close by, or even some big trips.

Big plus is you are discussing this and neither are looking for an "out" you both see your relationship has gotten a little passive, something needs to spark it up a bit.

After our first kid was born, we did not go out on a "date" like drac said for 5 years....Finally we went out one night to a club to see a band play, we had a blast....re-energized us sort of speak, we know go out whenever we have the same weekend off and can get a baby sitter.

We went on a cruise with our kids, loved it and it was romantic, plenty of stuff for kids to do on a cruise while the parents have their own fun.

Let's do a little brain storming.... What are you both looking for?? Let's hear it, nothing is to crazy or far fetched.