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Old 03-05-2012, 01:59 AM   #51 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by bandit.45 View Post
Take your time and go dark on her for a couple weeks. Don't take her calls or e-mails. If you need to get info to her, go through her mom.

You need to rest and collect yourself. Read up on the 180 and work the program. Flying off the handle only gives her ammunition to use against you. She can turn everyone against you by making you out to be a madman. Don't let her do this.

Have you exposed her to family and friends? Have you told the other mans family?
Her mom and brother are pissed at her and the other guy is single and was using her as a way to get back at his exwife.

I really want to thank you all for giving me advice and validating my suspicions. It's good to know wasn't crazy or over reacting.
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