Re: should I let her go
Reading this makes me wonder if this is happening to me. My wife just sought a relationship with another man because of things she feels are missing from our relationship. She has even hinted that they never may have been there and that she doesn't want to give me a chance to find out. She got together with me right after getting out of a passionate, but failing relationship. I was her best friend, but I am one of those, smart, funny, nice guys. She still wants that danger and passion.
Our marriage is failing because of the choices she made and the lack of communication between us. Now I sometimes feel like I am in the same boat as your wife. I love my wife more than life itself. More than I should, and perhaps more than she deserves. But now, I am just waiting to find out if she loves me enough (at all?) to stay married. I want to stay married, but if she doesn't love me, what is the point? I will live in a constant state of fear and unhappiness.
I think you owe it to your wife to get the divorce and more importantly, help her find herself again. If you don't love her, at least respect her and show some compassion. I can only hope that my wife will do that for me instead of cheating again.
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