| | Re: 'What's worked for me' - the man version
I would add a couple of more points:
1. Don't stop dating your wife. Keep doing the types of stuff you did when you first pursued her and made her feel special. Don't stop doing that.
2. Avoid loosing the guy she married. It is all to easy to get drawn into the job of being a husband and father. This often means the fun qualities that attracted her in the first place get placed to the side. While some of that is necessary, don't loose all of them. She liked them in the beginning, so make sure that you keep some of them to keep her attracted.