| | Re: Ladies what do you really want?
Yeah I agree but she just tells me that when it comes to sex she can't just become turned on that it will take time. I pointed out that we have been dealing with this issue since we were married and before kids. I am starting to think that she is just low libido and is one of those women who really prefer things like Pinterest and FB as well as raising kids to things like sex. She has the guy, the kids, nice house, part-time job and we are not broke so she is done. She is really happy today - nice to see I mean I love her but that has zero chance of translating to sex tonight. She even came up behind me and gave me a nice long hug. It was nice but that was it --- see for her that was her showing affection. Yes it was great and I like it but thats it or maybe she is finally defrosting. Somewhere in our discussions later I am going to just put a number out there -- I need sex twice a week. Otherwise it is like once every week to week and half then i get grumpy and we argue about other stuff. So what you think? Sucks cause too me that is so unromantic but if your partner never initiates and shoots you down lots it might be the best alternative.
Last edited by veryconfusedhusband; 03-05-2012 at 10:35 PM.