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Old 03-06-2012, 01:06 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Default Re: HUSBANDS MIDLIFE CRISIS - Anyone Go Through This?

Well I could claim that my husband is going through a mid-life crisis. He's 57 and acting 15. All he does all day is play PC games. He will not work. But i'm not sure if this is a second childhood or a mid-life crises.

I am sorry that you are going through this. It's hard and hurtful.

The best thing that you can do is to take care of yourself. You do not want to watch the train wreck that is about to happen nor is it healthy for you to sit around and pine.

My suggestion is that you behave towards him like the 180 in my signature block below. This will protect you emotionally. And if he comes to his senses and comes back to you, you will be mentally and emotionally healthier and will be able to deal with the situation in a much clearer manner.
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