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revitalizedhusband · 06-10-2009, 08:53 AM

OMG, so many things going wrong here.

1. She told you to sleep with someone else...what kind of stupid woman does that?

2. You slept with someone else, then she probably knew who you did because she explicitly asked about that woman and made an ultimatum setting you up to either lie and be with her, or tell the truth and lose her. She's crazy.

3. You lied, that's bad. You should have just told the truth and if she couldn't deal with it then you would still be better off than you are right now.

4. Abortion for birth control is about the sickest thing on the planet in my mind. Adoption, adoption, adoption. However, that's done and over with and water under the bridge at this point.

5. She cheated on you, you never cheated on her (she broke up with you and told you to sleep with someone else), but you did lie to her about who you slept with...and somehow YOU are the one "more" in the wrong? Man, she's crazy.

She needs some major counseling, just my opinion, but she's off her rocker.

06-10-2009, 08:53 AM	#12 (permalink)
revitalizedhusband Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 700	Re: errmmm help messed up OMG, so many things going wrong here. 1. She told you to sleep with someone else...what kind of stupid woman does that? 2. You slept with someone else, then she probably knew who you did because she explicitly asked about that woman and made an ultimatum setting you up to either lie and be with her, or tell the truth and lose her. She's crazy. 3. You lied, that's bad. You should have just told the truth and if she couldn't deal with it then you would still be better off than you are right now. 4. Abortion for birth control is about the sickest thing on the planet in my mind. Adoption, adoption, adoption. However, that's done and over with and water under the bridge at this point. 5. She cheated on you, you never cheated on her (she broke up with you and told you to sleep with someone else), but you did lie to her about who you slept with...and somehow YOU are the one "more" in the wrong? Man, she's crazy. She needs some major counseling, just my opinion, but she's off her rocker.