Well the "mix" kind of matters and there is a reason for that. What areas are you "hot" in and which is SHE "hot" in?
It really does matter. If you want her to "value" your contribution, you have to steadily ramp DOWN in the areas that matter to her. Because it sure sounds like your response to being de-prioritized by her has been to chase her more intensely with trips, and other stuff. And that is a huge mistake as it inadvertently rewards her bad behavior.
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Originally Posted by phantomfan  Other than the general hot and cold, no. About 1/2 apply to me on each hot and cold.
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