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Originally Posted by WadeWilson  In the end the argument will not be about a tattoo....
But rather who is making the sacrifice for the benefit of the others feelings...
This could be a real problem...
You don't get one; you may find a way to rebel for your sacrifice
You do get one; he may find a way to rebel for his sacrifice
Talk it out, wait some time, give both of you proper time to mature on the subject...
You both need days and nights to sleep on it...
Note: no matter how insignificant, he does have to look at it on you...
Note: if he loves you for what counts, he knows it's a part of you, and he can learn to accept it as well as you... |
I know...the sensible person in me says not to do it, because I know that even if I don't do it, I won't feel the need to retaliate in another way, I can live without it, and I know that he uses what I do to justify what he does....
Damned if you do, damned if you don't right?
