confusedny25

hey let me get straight to the point. i settled down very early. when i was 18 i met and fell in love with my wife who was 24 at the time. she already had a child from a previous relationship. after about two months of dating we moved in together got engaged and i found out the great news that she was pregnant. that made me a father of two girls by the age of 19. I worked my butt off providing for my family. everything was great. over time i felt as if our relationship was dragging along we werent having sex as much we were arguing constantly too much to handle for unfortunately me being the immature 20 year old that i was i started having affairs here and there 3 in total in the course of two years. I cant say i was proud but i was losing my mind. i eventually some time later confessed to her what i had did. i begged for her forgivness. she accepted my apology and we moved on. but now the problem is still there we hardly have sex with eachother at all and she is often trying to or actually invades my privacy. i am a great father i love my children and i dont want to be away from then which is why i think im still there. we actually also had a boy together 3 years back so i raise 3 children work very hard and i feel under aprreciated not trusted and controlled. i feel like i have no privacy and i feel less and less like the man that i am the longer my relationship continues. i tried talking to her about it but its like talking to a wall. even as recent as yesterday i suggested counseling and her reply was to just break up with her even tho i stated about three time that i didnt want to do that but she just kept on saying for me to break up with her. Im too young with to much responsibility to deal with this please someone tell me what i should do i just to be happy