Talk About Marriage - View Single Post - Same Song & Dance, it's a neverending cycle and I don't know what to do

toomuch · 03-08-2012, 05:57 AM

Thanks Prodigal - all makes perfect sense. I really do get it. I watch Intervention and Dr. Phil - but it's different when it's someone else's life!

He has been 'pretending' to not drink as much - I know he should not be drinking at all - but it's still 6 pack a day - and wine if we have it.

He's bad about not leaving wine in the fridge - I know, I know - there's booze he's not gonna save it. I had chocolate wine that he tasted and did not like - guess what??? I had 1 glass and the rest is gone, gone, gone.

He is so good at hiding it, most of the time I can't tell when he's been drinking and when he hasn't. And if I ask, he get's really mad.

Whatever, I am pretty much done with the marriage at this point. I don't see anyway of looking back now.

I am going to seek counseling for myself, and my kids as well.

Thanks

03-08-2012, 05:57 AM	#11 (permalink)
toomuch Registered User Join Date: Mar 2012 Posts: 10	Re: Same Song & Dance, it's a neverending cycle and I don't know what to do Thanks Prodigal - all makes perfect sense. I really do get it. I watch Intervention and Dr. Phil - but it's different when it's someone else's life! He has been 'pretending' to not drink as much - I know he should not be drinking at all - but it's still 6 pack a day - and wine if we have it. He's bad about not leaving wine in the fridge - I know, I know - there's booze he's not gonna save it. I had chocolate wine that he tasted and did not like - guess what??? I had 1 glass and the rest is gone, gone, gone. He is so good at hiding it, most of the time I can't tell when he's been drinking and when he hasn't. And if I ask, he get's really mad. Whatever, I am pretty much done with the marriage at this point. I don't see anyway of looking back now. I am going to seek counseling for myself, and my kids as well. Thanks