| | Re: Same Song & Dance, it's a neverending cycle and I don't know what to do
Thanks Prodigal - all makes perfect sense. I really do get it. I watch Intervention and Dr. Phil - but it's different when it's someone else's life!
He has been 'pretending' to not drink as much - I know he should not be drinking at all - but it's still 6 pack a day - and wine if we have it.
He's bad about not leaving wine in the fridge - I know, I know - there's booze he's not gonna save it. I had chocolate wine that he tasted and did not like - guess what??? I had 1 glass and the rest is gone, gone, gone.
He is so good at hiding it, most of the time I can't tell when he's been drinking and when he hasn't. And if I ask, he get's really mad.
Whatever, I am pretty much done with the marriage at this point. I don't see anyway of looking back now.
I am going to seek counseling for myself, and my kids as well.