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deejov · 03-08-2012, 06:51 AM

Sorry to hear you have jumped on the resentment train.
It's not a pleasant ride, it's a cold hard ball of apathy that rattles around in your chest. while you are putting all of your energy into the wall, no one else is able to get in. Especially not your wife.

Someone has to make the first move. You are here, so you must care? You obviously want her love and attention.

On the other hand, if you have given up and no longer love your wife, and cannot get past everything you have done in the past (and she has not responded) then there is no point in trying.

At that point it would be fair to divorce her.
No one is going to approach you when you have closed the door.

03-08-2012, 06:51 AM	#38 (permalink)
deejov Member Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Alberta Posts: 1,786	Re: Sexual Frustration Sorry to hear you have jumped on the resentment train. It's not a pleasant ride, it's a cold hard ball of apathy that rattles around in your chest. while you are putting all of your energy into the wall, no one else is able to get in. Especially not your wife. Someone has to make the first move. You are here, so you must care? You obviously want her love and attention. On the other hand, if you have given up and no longer love your wife, and cannot get past everything you have done in the past (and she has not responded) then there is no point in trying. At that point it would be fair to divorce her. No one is going to approach you when you have closed the door.