BrokenFrag

Thanks for sharing your experiences, Swedish. It has only been since Sunday night that she confessed and last night she said that she wants us to succeed for the first time. I am not sure if she said it to get me to shut up or if she means it. Time will tell. I am also not sure about how much she has broken off her relationship, nor do I know how much I should pry or push her to. I want to trust her and show her that I do, but she shattered my world only a few days ago. I do hope she has the strength and attitude that your husband has. I am sure the guy my wife was interested is a nice enough guy and I know their relationship started because he was having troubles in his life. My wife really likes to be the mama hen wherever she is. Somehow she let that turn into romantic thoughts and feelings. I know she doesn't want to end everything with the guy because he definitely fills a need for her and he is a coworker, but I hope she realizes that the only way she and I moves forward is to completely cut him off. I hope she is strong enough to do that.

I am doing what I can to pay attention to her. I have planned a few dates for us as well. I hope that she understands how much I need her to reach out to me and to make me understand how committed she is to our relationship so that I can continue to have the strength to believe in us.

Thanks for listening and sharing.