swedish

I haven't spoken with her to get her side of the story. I did feel that my husband was very forthcoming and did not try to twist things around. What was going on in his mind is all I care about because I feel we couldn't move forward if we didn't get our issues on the table. Much of what he had to say was very painful to hear, but we both needed to make some serious changes so I really needed to tell myself, that was before...when we both were at fault for our marriage being in the state it was...that is not now or who he is now. I have no desire to ever speak with her...I had the chance as I saw her the first time at his Christmas party, but I'm not confrontational by nature and really don't have anything to say to her. The love/hate feelings are totally normal and get better over time...I think as time goes by the love is what is now and in my face...the other feelings pop up, but at the end of those thoughts I always tell myself I'm glad that's in the past now and we've moved forward.