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Originally Posted by GAsoccerman
well while asking for an apology is not much to ask for.
I think there is more to this. You both should seek counseling. How long have you been married? What was the marriage like before all this?
If you want to continue the marriage you will need counseling because you will constantly re-think this through. I don't know either of you, so I am not here to judge.
Go see a marriage counselor if you wish to be married, otherwise I think it will fail down the line.
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We are approaching 8 years in July, and I thought things were wonderful. I recognize that we definitely lost focus on connecting as much as we used to, but I didn't have a clue things had gotten so bad that she needed to have an emotional affair (assuming she has told me the truth about how far they went). I was blindsided by all this.
And counseling is definitely on the agenda. We are trying to make sure we find a counselor that will help us find solutions. I have talked and heard from a lot of married and divorced people who have said that counseling can often times make things worse depending on what they are focused on.