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Gizzy · 06-10-2009, 05:21 PM

Thank you for your reply amberlynn. I really wish it was that easy. I really do. However, I don't think he has our safety in mind. Last year, I noticed a vibration when I pressed the brake pedal on the car. He was in the car with me at the time, and being a mechanic, he knew exactly what it was. He said "Oh no, thats the brakes! I'm going to have to take it in to fix it." Three months later, the brakes on my car finally got fixed. It ended up costing us about $600 due to the fact that he had to replace pretty much everything to do with the brakes, because he had let it go for so long.

How is our relationship in other ways? Oh boy, that is a very good question. There was a time when I thought that we would be that cute elderly couple who still held hands in public. Now when we are out, he walks about 10 feet in front of me. We don't cuddle, we don't hold hands, in fact, the only time he really shows me any kind of affection is when he wants sex. We don't engage in any kind of conversation unless it has to do with how his day has went. I can't remember the last time he asked me how my day was.

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Gizzy Registered User Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 8	Re: Cheap Husband Thank you for your reply amberlynn. I really wish it was that easy. I really do. However, I don't think he has our safety in mind. Last year, I noticed a vibration when I pressed the brake pedal on the car. He was in the car with me at the time, and being a mechanic, he knew exactly what it was. He said "Oh no, thats the brakes! I'm going to have to take it in to fix it." Three months later, the brakes on my car finally got fixed. It ended up costing us about $600 due to the fact that he had to replace pretty much everything to do with the brakes, because he had let it go for so long. How is our relationship in other ways? Oh boy, that is a very good question. There was a time when I thought that we would be that cute elderly couple who still held hands in public. Now when we are out, he walks about 10 feet in front of me. We don't cuddle, we don't hold hands, in fact, the only time he really shows me any kind of affection is when he wants sex. We don't engage in any kind of conversation unless it has to do with how his day has went. I can't remember the last time he asked me how my day was.