svsrob

Yes, I can understand that he may feel he is enabling, but he is not. He wants me to do everything, and if he is at all asked to do something he does not want to he becomes rude and it is offensive. I told him that if we were to move and I have to give up my friends, support group, and everything I have worked so hard to get to move here, then I want to focus on getting healthy, buying a cheaper home, and not working for a year. My husband makes good money and we could of bought down. I should be positive, but I am so angry with him I can't even explain it. I am on my own with my illness, it is serious and I have to take care of a young child. My husband picked out a big house that is a fixer upper that is forcing me back into the work force. I said I did not want this house, and now I am stuck on top of that with a Crazy neighbor which is making it worse. He bullied me into this house with threats and I now feel over whelmed, and I have been here six months, but I am not happy. My husband is not autistic but has some of the wonderful traits, like only listening to others that he feels are experts, yadda yadda yadda. He was mad because he did dishes the first time in seven years and a dirty dish came to him, he became super rude, and realized I as on the phone and stopped himself. I am just venting, I just need to get some of this out.