Re: i need some clarity
I agree with Amp and I think it would be healthy for you to read the posts where people are cheated on and just how long it really takes for them to get over such a problem and move on with there relationship. You feel like your privacy is being invaded, well that is the draw back to being a cheater (no offense) but it is for you to give up such a right so that she can trust you again. If I was her I wouldn't trust you either and the mere fact she is still with you is one which you should count your stars lucky.
It sounds like you still have maturity issues too. But you gave up a bit of privacy and freedom when you had your first child, let alone your second one.
What steps have you made to fixing the relationship?
draconis
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