I like you - really I do. But you just crossed a line here. It is not my place to "label" DG's wife. I really mean that. I am attempting to get him to see how he is creating a terrible and unworkable precedent if he allows a few rounds in bed to offset:
- 2 years of sexlessness AND
- Her clear and consistent message that she is not happy with him - followed by "I don't know what I want, and have no idea what either of us can do to make it better"
- The fact that they lack the net worth to afford an apartment if they want to separate
- The very ugly fact that right after sex she wanted him to leave her alone physically - this was a physical act she tolerated not a step toward emotionally connecting with him
I do think they are not even close to compatible. I also think that DG places such a high priority on her attractiveness that he is/was willing to be treated with disdain to keep her around.
I think she is and always has focused on "what he can do for her". That is ok as a component to a marriage, but if that is the SOLE DRIVER for being with someone, the outcome he has gotten to date is very much the norm.
Originally Posted by bandit.45
So you're saying she's basically a prostitute. Turning tricks to get her Mickey Mouse fix.
Yeah..... I can see that.
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