demora

If he's not doing it anymore, then take it at face value. He was curious about it and he got sucked in for a short time. He was not happy either from the sounds of it when he was surfing the porn.

Maybe what you need to do is take a look at it from a different perspecitve. Yes, he did it. Yes, it hurt you. Yes, he knows it. Yes, he stopped doing it. Therefore, he loves you enough that he respects how it made you feel and no realizes the negitive impact it had on the marriage. He's not likely to do it again.

As humans, we all make mistakes. He owned up to it, dealt with the hurt feelings and worked to get your relationship back to where it is once again healthy and happy. What more does that man need to do?

I know how it makes you feel, my husband looks at porn all the time and nothing I say is helping. He doesn't seem to care about me enough to not do it anymore, so it's time to for me to lay down some ultimatums....and I really hate that....but I guess my point is, that if he quit tomorrow and started working on us, I would not have an issue with what he did. It's a hurt you'll always remember...but don't let it destroy your lives. Put it in it's proper place, and I know you said trust was an issue. Stop checking the computer and his cell phone. He's got to have the opportunity to earn your trust again.