worried123

Thank you everyone.

I asked my husband to sit down and read theses posts with me. I wanted him to know that it bothered me bad enough I saught out the advice of others. I also wanted him to see that other people removed from the situation found it inapropriate.

At first he said well what do theses people know they dont even know me and he was defensive. But a day later he came to me and said he promises to be a better husband and to try to get this situation under control.

I understand he doesnt want to loose his friend I tried to explain to him as life situations change like marriage and dating other relationships change to. I dont expect him to never speak to her again but i do expect to be the # one woman in his life.

Im hoping I said the right thinks I didnt get mad or angry or even cry. But I did look him in the eye and said if this doesnt change you will loose me. And ive never said that before but its true and it came from the heart.

I guess only time will tell