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BrokenFrag · 03-28-2008, 10:37 AM

Last night I found out that my wife had not broken things off with the other man, despite telling me several times that she would and had. She has already talked about what she thinks is missing, and what she is afraid of, but she still isn't willing to give me a chance to try to fill those needs. She is a good person doing bad things, but if she doesn't stop doing bad things, and doesn't try to make things right, she will end up being a bad person. If that happens the happiness that she so desparately wants will never be within her reach. If she can't meet me half way and at the very least stop her affair and the lying, we won't ever be able to heal. Things are out of my hands now. Our marriage will fail on her unwillingness to work it out.

03-28-2008, 10:37 AM	#9 (permalink)
BrokenFrag Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 81	Re: What if she hasn't asked for forgiveness? Last night I found out that my wife had not broken things off with the other man, despite telling me several times that she would and had. She has already talked about what she thinks is missing, and what she is afraid of, but she still isn't willing to give me a chance to try to fill those needs. She is a good person doing bad things, but if she doesn't stop doing bad things, and doesn't try to make things right, she will end up being a bad person. If that happens the happiness that she so desparately wants will never be within her reach. If she can't meet me half way and at the very least stop her affair and the lying, we won't ever be able to heal. Things are out of my hands now. Our marriage will fail on her unwillingness to work it out.