Originally Posted by Mrs. T
It's all a matter of perspective. Is sex is something you do not for the joy of it but because you feel obligated? When my husband indicates a desire for sex I happily comply. My reasons: I want to be with him, I want to make him happy and part of it is selfish...I love making love to him and how he makes me feel. For me it's an opportunity not a demand.
DING DING DING. One simple word change will change EVERYTHING in your sex life...from demand to opportunity. Well said!