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arbitrator · 03-11-2012, 08:08 PM

Melissa: It appears all too clear that like me, you've been duly abandoned. Difference is my STBXW packed us off to a different city to do it and just left us. Yours just up and left.

You are to be greatly commended for having made contact with him but I'm greatly reading that his intentions are totally dishonorable to you. And to that end, you need to get with legal counsel ASAP and get the ball rolling on divorcing him. There's someone else out there that will truly love you for who you are and holding a torch for someone who has a track record of continuing to kick you to the curb is not that person. Focus your energy on your sons, because they truly are your gift from God!

Get into IC if you can afford it, and if you're not in Church, make an effort to do so because there's some great caring people in there for you. Best of luck to you, my dear!

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arbitrator Member Join Date: Feb 2012 Location: Central Texas/Brazos Valley Posts: 3,046	Re: Should I make contact? Melissa: It appears all too clear that like me, you've been duly abandoned. Difference is my STBXW packed us off to a different city to do it and just left us. Yours just up and left. You are to be greatly commended for having made contact with him but I'm greatly reading that his intentions are totally dishonorable to you. And to that end, you need to get with legal counsel ASAP and get the ball rolling on divorcing him. There's someone else out there that will truly love you for who you are and holding a torch for someone who has a track record of continuing to kick you to the curb is not that person. Focus your energy on your sons, because they truly are your gift from God! Get into IC if you can afford it, and if you're not in Church, make an effort to do so because there's some great caring people in there for you. Best of luck to you, my dear!