| | Re: Why are you here and what do you expect.
Several years ago I realized our marriage while still good was getting stagnant. I knew that it takes hard work and dedication to have a good marriage so I began researching and learning way to keep my marriage healthy and vibrant. I've read many books and perused many web sites in my quest for knowledge. One of the sites I went to was a blog written by Athol Kay called Married Man's Sex Life. I learned about Talk About Marriage from him and came here to see what real people were saying hoping to continue to learn and grow. I lurked for quite a while and eventually realized that there weren't many people posting who had reconciled after an affair and even fewer who had stayed together as long as my wife and I. So I decided to register and begin posting to give my perspective and try to help those that needed help.