Originally Posted by GreenEyes
Yeah I have gotten that in the past when I found out H was texting this girl from the gym that was friends with his sister, and apparently really good friends with him too, but he failed to mention that they texted and met up at the gym, and the driving range, and probably other places, because he knew I would get mad....
This is a bad sign. You should pay a little more attention to your husband to see if he is up to something. He's demonstrated that he is willing to hide things and he's going out without you which means he's disengaged from your relationship a bit. I wouldn't automatically say he's straying because many people just want to go have fun, but, this makes me suspicious on your behalf.