| | Re: Am I Being Ridiculous????
Do you have some friends you could swap baby sitting favors with, not sure the ages of your kids but at our house, we have kids spend the night here, then they go there, I have watched friends kids overnight -so they could get out alone, vice versa & it doesn't cost anything.
If I was in your shoes, I'd find some way to get someone to babysit on a night he plans to be late at this particular bar, grab some Gf's and go see what he is really up too. Have someone you work with , go spy on him at the very least.
I woudn't like it at all. I think couples should always go to places like that together and never stay out that late (if they are not together)... that keeps one out of temptation.
He is making excuses, sounds like he had/has an EA , the g-mail account, time to confront and lay it on the line. He is going to fear Divorce something awful -due to what it is going to cost him in Child support, time to get dirty.
You are not being rediculous at all.