Well, this maybe long so please forgive me, but advise would be very very very greatly apperciated.
So first off there is...well lets call him Eric. I dated him for 2 years after meeting him at Prom. I loved him terribly much I did everything I could to make him happy, but he was addicted to weed and partying. I left him after I moved from town and things got worse argument wise. So I thought things were through between us so I started trying to move on. (21 yrs old)
That's when I met let's call him...Justin. I was living alone at the time so Justin asked me to stay with him seeing as how we both just needed a roomie and some one to cuddle with to make life easier. I've never in my life done this before, but it wasn't bad at all. We had our diffrence and our fights, but I always had my appartment to run to if we needed time appart. I don't really have feelings for Justin, but he is my good friend. (24)
On top of all this I've recently met a man named..Pat. He's a good guy, no drugs, catholic, and he is also a co-worker... I don't know him that well and he doesn't talk much, but he says he's as emotional as I am..(ie sad one min happy then next)
The problem is I don't know what to do I still have some feelings for Eric, and he for me, but of course my dad HATES him. Plus he's cleaned up and is changing alot for the better, but still.. Justin likes me, but I don't feel the way for him. Pat seems like a great guy, but its a big risk. WHat do I do how do I know what to do? Should I go back to Eric and try to repair things or start with Pat? An advise on love would be wonderful, grandma's you just need to play the field didn't help at all, but I am sorry to have to ask everyone here to do my mothers job...
Friends are good to, I don't bite..
