Kysmom

Thanks for your response! We had been getting along really well since the big blow up the other night. That is, until about 20 minutes ago. So, he went to the baseball game tonight with his cousin which was about 1 hour and a 1/2 away from where we live. I had made peace with his decision not to go to the concert with me and to go to the game instead and I decided not to just sit at home and to go out with some friends from work. My husband promised to call when the game was over and let me know he was on his way home. Well, I just left the place where I was with my friends and had a message from my husband at about 10:30 pm. The game wasn't over yet, they had decided to just leave a little early and go to the casino boat. This infuriated me! Number 1 because we are not in the best financial state right now and we can't just go blowing money at the boat, not to mention the fact that he's going with a bunch of friends for two days this coming week and we have a poker game at a friend's house tomorrow night. Number 2 because every time he goes to the boat he tends to stay there until 8 or 9 am which means he won't be home until 10 or 11 am, around the time I'll be getting up. So not only did I not see him at all today, I won't see him tomorrow either because he'll be sleeping the day away and not interracting at all with me or my son. I also hate going to bed at night not having any idea when he's going to be home or if he's making home safely. Myabe I am a baby to be bothered by these things, I don't know. I called him as soon as I got in the car and told him I was irritated. He said "of course". I really don't have a problem with everything he does. Hell, I was being pretty agreeable considering he cancelled plans with me to go to the game in the first place. And also that this is the fourth night in a week that he's been gone and one of the nights that he was here he didn't come to bed until I was getting up for work, and he's going away for two days and nights this coming week. I think I'm a pretty damn agreeable wife. But if I have a problem with ANYTHING ever then he immediately starts saying that I'm a nag and I always have a problem and he doesn't need a mother. Basically for us to get along at all I have to just keep my mouth shut and let him do whatever he wants to do whenever he wants to do it, including sex. Oh yeah, and he also says that when I complain about something it turns him off of me sexually as well. I don't know. If I'm not justified in my complaints then I want to know and I'll do what I need to do to keep them to myself. But I really feel justified here. And I'm about to pull my hair out! And what great sleep I'm going to get tonight too, by the way, with my husband a couple of hours away and me having no idea what time he plans on coming home. Well, sorry to keep going on and on, I'm just sooooo pissed right now!