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nangie29 · 03-29-2008, 01:36 PM

I am sorry you are going through this. It sounds as if your relationship with your husband has been put on the back burner while you were busy dealing with your babies. Men crave attention and love, and when that attention and love is being spent on the children and not on him he will start to feel neglected. If he already says he's not in love with you he has let his feelings go on way too long without communicating them to you. It really takes effort from both of you to keep the love and romance alive. I know it can be hard to juggle work, kids, housework and a loving relationship but it can be done. I really hope he can give counseling a shot - it really can be worth the effort. Good luck to you.

03-29-2008, 01:36 PM	#9 (permalink)
nangie29 Registered User Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 8	Re: He says he's not in love anymore I am sorry you are going through this. It sounds as if your relationship with your husband has been put on the back burner while you were busy dealing with your babies. Men crave attention and love, and when that attention and love is being spent on the children and not on him he will start to feel neglected. If he already says he's not in love with you he has let his feelings go on way too long without communicating them to you. It really takes effort from both of you to keep the love and romance alive. I know it can be hard to juggle work, kids, housework and a loving relationship but it can be done. I really hope he can give counseling a shot - it really can be worth the effort. Good luck to you.