Originally Posted by CandieGirl
I agree with you, and I am weary of searching this site (and the entire internet) to try and find a solution. Looks like I'm on my own, because I'm hard pressed to find any book/blog/site that offers any advice at all to a woman in my situation. Everything seems geared toward men; as though men are the only ones who want a sex life.
But then, maybe that's it. Maybe I'm intended to figure it out on my own.
There may be more resources for men than women or geared towards them, but based on what I've seen here, its not gender specific. Even though men's sex drive is much more simplistic, when the switch is off, it's not happening for either. The attitude short circuit from my observations is a common point of failure. To me, it seems simple enough. If you're not in the mood and its important to your partner, make a choice, get help, fight, do until you get there mentally or physically. Build a bridge and get over it, whatever "it" is.