nangie29

I am sorry you are going through all this right now. You must feel very hurt by all the things that has happened. First of all, being a stay at home mom can be a very draining job. You probably are craving some adult time and interaction by the time your hubby gets home. Hubby may be feeling he needs time to wind down a little so it may be hard for him to jump into the conversation. That's probably why all he wants to do is go to sleep or veg in front of the tv. But, that is just a matter of making good quality time for each other and not worrying so much about quantity.

The going out with a co worker and having two different stories of the conversation would throw up a big red flag for me. Even if he didn't physically cheat on you, he is spending some quality time with her that he could be spending with you. If he is willing to do anything to fix your marriage and build your trust then make him do whatever it takes to build that trust again. This will show he is really serious about making it work. I would set up an appointment with a counselor and I'm sure they could give you some trust building ideas. There are many couples who have had infedelity in their marriage and were able to work through it and make it work - so don't give up hope. Good Luck to you.