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Floab · 03-13-2012, 10:20 PM

I've been married for almost 3 years but I've been with my wife for almost 10 yrs.I'll admit at first our sex life was ok to me.But for as long as I can remember it's gotten to the point of 1 time a week if not once every 2 weeks.And the other thing is she never or rarely initiates sex I always have to do it and sometimes I feel like I force her to do it to make me happy.I'll admit to her defense she has premature ovarian failure which lessens her sex drive.But I feel so I guess almost unwanted.So I find myself always fantasying about other women (a couple girls we both know who were friends with) and I seem to strongly want to be with one of them sexually.I know I would never cheat but my urges are so strong sometimes.So I guess I feel that one day I might not be able to control myself.Any help or advice I can get would be helpful thanks.

03-13-2012, 10:20 PM	#1 (permalink)
Floab Registered User Join Date: Mar 2012 Posts: 1	Lack of sex from wife. I've been married for almost 3 years but I've been with my wife for almost 10 yrs.I'll admit at first our sex life was ok to me.But for as long as I can remember it's gotten to the point of 1 time a week if not once every 2 weeks.And the other thing is she never or rarely initiates sex I always have to do it and sometimes I feel like I force her to do it to make me happy.I'll admit to her defense she has premature ovarian failure which lessens her sex drive.But I feel so I guess almost unwanted.So I find myself always fantasying about other women (a couple girls we both know who were friends with) and I seem to strongly want to be with one of them sexually.I know I would never cheat but my urges are so strong sometimes.So I guess I feel that one day I might not be able to control myself.Any help or advice I can get would be helpful thanks.