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Old 06-15-2009, 09:14 AM   #1 (permalink)
blondegirl
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Default Husband left me for weight

Hi, Im new to this site and I am looking for some help and advice and didn't know where else to go.

So here is my story, me and my husband have been married for 5 yrs almost, are marraige was going awesome until I got pregnant with our 1st and only child together. During the pregnancy he made a deal with me. He said if I do not get back to my original weight one year after he would leave me. My original weight is 105 before my pregnancy. So I had the baby everything was great, I was going to the gym staying active. After the pregnancy my weight went to 128. My body changed only a little. But I was really putting in the effort to get back to my 105 weight. I started dancing again like I did in high school. Running in the mornings, and also going on a really strict diet.

Well to make this long story short the year mark came and I weighed 112. He really packed up his bags and left.. And I dont know what to do. He has been gone for 1 week now, and I really don't think he is coming back. I am an emotional wreck. He was everything to me, besides him doing this, he really was a sweet and caring loving guy. He would do all those little things for me.

Please give me advice... I dont know what to do...
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