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Wildflower3 · 03-14-2012, 09:34 PM

Honestly, I wouldn't read into it as a possibility of R in the future. All I can say is that maybe she just wants everything to be the same, just not married. I think she wants to maintain some normalcy and keep everything looking good for the kids' sake. Plus, you will always be an important part of her life, you are the father of her children. As long as your children are breathing, you will be in each other's lives. Plus, maybe this is alleviating some of her guilt in being the WAW? I'm only offering these opinions because our stories are somewhat similar. My STBXH wants the kids to have parents that can be in the same room together who can maintain a close relationship. He wanted the kids to see that Mommy and Daddy can still be happy for their sake.

If you read into everything she does as having something to do with a possible R, you will drive yourself insane. Trust me, I was there.

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Wildflower3 Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Posts: 168	Re: what next Honestly, I wouldn't read into it as a possibility of R in the future. All I can say is that maybe she just wants everything to be the same, just not married. I think she wants to maintain some normalcy and keep everything looking good for the kids' sake. Plus, you will always be an important part of her life, you are the father of her children. As long as your children are breathing, you will be in each other's lives. Plus, maybe this is alleviating some of her guilt in being the WAW? I'm only offering these opinions because our stories are somewhat similar. My STBXH wants the kids to have parents that can be in the same room together who can maintain a close relationship. He wanted the kids to see that Mommy and Daddy can still be happy for their sake. If you read into everything she does as having something to do with a possible R, you will drive yourself insane. Trust me, I was there.