| | Re: Learned something new in counseling today
If you do this, you have to understand it will not change a failing marriage. Your looks have nothing to do with his tendencies. If that's all that mattered to him, why did you marry him?
If you do this, do it for yourself, not for him. I would hate to see you devastated after you go through surgery for him, and he cheats again. From the sounds of it, the money can be spent elsewhere anyway.