Originally Posted by Blonddeee

I put up with his drinking, lies, and porn addictions for 6 years, we were married for 3 years and I finally got to the point that I knew I needed to move on and find someone that is ready to take on adult responsibilities. I finally filed after him not coming home one weekend with him out drinking, i got a text that he wouldn't be home and that was it. We don't have kids- thank goodness, I can't imagine how much worse this would be if we did. It's been a couple months and our court date is the end of June. We have been civil in person, when I filed I told him all i wanted was half the debt... which he has...tv...stuff in the house. I thought i was being fair and nice- well last week he went and filed a counter petition against me and he's asking for spousal maintenance- temp and permanent... he makes twice as much as i do so i know it's not going to happen, but I gave him everything, he also wants me to pay his legal bills, and give him all the keys to the house even though he wants to leave the loan in my name instead of refinancing the house.He has most of the stuff in it. I'm starting to get really angry becuase I put up with all his lies over the last 6 years and I'm still trying to be nice... I need to stop being nice- he's trying to screw me- having me take all the debt and support him... I just don't get it... I want to hate him, but I can still remember good things about him and feel bad about hating him... this sucks... i can't wait till this is over. I know from the way he's acting that I made the best decision ever by leaving... he's not the man i thought he was.