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Saffron · 03-16-2012, 10:47 AM

Imaginations are scary things!

Remember JAWS? The mechanical shark didn't work right, so Steven Speilberg got creative and made it so the audience didn't see the shark until the end. He let the audience use their imaginations and it's one of the scariest movies ever! I only saw the ads as a kid and wouldn't even swim in a pool by the ocean I was so freaked out.

It's a double whammy for you, because you have to deal with the mind movies on your own and will most likely never know the truth. That would be incredibly hard to deal with, so it's normal if you feel a little obsessed about it right now. It will fade over time, maybe it will take longer because you won't get answers, but it will get better.

It's great you joined a gym and cut your hair! Do stuff for you now and know your day will come. You already have your day in court on the calendar, that's totally moving forward and something to be proud of!

And about the new sexy underwear and mind games. Yeah, I'd probably try to think of a way to dispose of a Victoria's Secret bag in a place where it's not noticeable, but might be noticed. Like folded in with the recycles for trash day or something. If the stbx noticed and commented, a shrug would be all that's needed.

Oh it's sooooo hard to not want to play the mind games, but they are fun to think about!

03-16-2012, 10:47 AM	#42 (permalink)
Saffron Member Join Date: Mar 2010 Posts: 438	Re: V for Vendetta....how to piss of the OW Imaginations are scary things! Remember JAWS? The mechanical shark didn't work right, so Steven Speilberg got creative and made it so the audience didn't see the shark until the end. He let the audience use their imaginations and it's one of the scariest movies ever! I only saw the ads as a kid and wouldn't even swim in a pool by the ocean I was so freaked out. It's a double whammy for you, because you have to deal with the mind movies on your own and will most likely never know the truth. That would be incredibly hard to deal with, so it's normal if you feel a little obsessed about it right now. It will fade over time, maybe it will take longer because you won't get answers, but it will get better. It's great you joined a gym and cut your hair! Do stuff for you now and know your day will come. You already have your day in court on the calendar, that's totally moving forward and something to be proud of! And about the new sexy underwear and mind games. Yeah, I'd probably try to think of a way to dispose of a Victoria's Secret bag in a place where it's not noticeable, but might be noticed. Like folded in with the recycles for trash day or something. If the stbx noticed and commented, a shrug would be all that's needed. Oh it's sooooo hard to not want to play the mind games, but they are fun to think about!