Kenya26

I wouldn't say common with women, more so common with people in general. You have been married for quite some time and longevity comes from keeping things fresh. It could be that when she sees someone that fits her "type" or arouses her fantasies, it puts her in the mood to make love. It probably isn't the greatest feeling in the world to feel that your spouse is envisioning someone else when making love to you, however; one thing that you do have going is that she is making love to you and not them. Fantasies are safe! As long as she does not act on those impulses I really dont feel a need for you to fret. If it really bothers you communication is the best policy. Speak to her about it and tell her what is on your heart.

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Kenya26