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Old 03-17-2012, 06:18 AM   #15 (permalink)
JustWaiting
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Default Re: Fitness test, or... ? Need advice soon.

If you really want to reconcile and have a marriage, you need to approach this as if you were dating her or as if she was your best friend. Best friends and people who are dating want to be with each other. They don't see something like this as a burden but, rather, as an opportunity to be together. If you were trying to date and woo her, would you go about that by trying to annoy her or distance yourself from her? The most alpha males I've ever known as role models were strong enough to make their wives and children their priorities. That's not a sign of weakness. Perhaps it is some kind of test. I think that showing enthusiasm for being together and doing something together is the way to pass it.
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