When we started having sex 4 mos. into our relationship, we went straight to PIV, no OS or other "sex play" or "everything...but" I had in my late 20s...
....the kind of things I enjoyed, taking it slow, doing exploring, etc.
Appetizers, not straight to the main course.
Have suggested many times how she could "fulfill" me in other ways. However, she's never taken me up on that offer and seems uninterested.
Maybe she fears I'd expect PIV after such "sex play."
Want to do that stuff of course, and honestly would be content getting my release in other ways. Just want the PIV weekly, if possible.
The closest I've gotten to non-PIV acts is outercourse.
I loooooove that and it drives me crazy with new sensations have rarely experienced.
Didn't ask. Just started doing that.
Have attempted oral on her as well, starting to kiss her down there.
Didn't "ask," just proceeded.
But she blocks me.