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Old 03-17-2012, 03:36 PM   #14 (permalink)
STARTINGOVER@40
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I'm having a bad day, mothers day tomorrow (uk) and I miss my mum so much. Wish she was here, I could really do with her advice & support. She always knew just what to say to make it better. She would be delighted that I am finally divorcing my STBXH but would not have taken any pleasure in being right.
My mum in law is fabulous, I love her so much, we are very close. I have known her for 24 years and she has often said I am the daughter she missed out on (she has a daughter who is mentally handicapped) my STBXH is adamant that once our marriage ends that my relationship with his mum will end, in fact he is determined to end my relationship with all of his family. I can't bear the thought that I will lose another mum through no fault of my own. I know blood is thicker than water but why do I deserve to be punished when he's the one who had an affair?
His family are all saying that nothing will change as far as they are concerned but I know my STBXH he has been increasingly vindictive and I know he will do whatever he can to hurt me..
All the time his wh0re is choosing venues, wedding stationary and cakes of FB...!!
Why is it when someone wrecks your car you can get justice, but if someone wrecks your life you just have to sit there & take it?
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