Early Feb. 2011: Some success !!!
Let's just say I got "lucky..."

a time or two....
If the other night is an indication (she had her hands all over me), am hoping for a great Valentines Day.

After a romantic weekend together in a resort city last month, we got closer on the return drive and later that night, she was receptive to my overtures.
She didn't even need lubrication, as she has in the past.
It was, however, after a long period of foreplay, which was fine as I enjoy that of course.
Even more significant, she began to "touch" and caress me. This is something I've recently began suggesting she do as a "substitute" for times we (she) can't do PIV.
She's only done that a couple of times in our entire marriage, and this time, it didn't take any prompting from me. So was a pleasant surprise for sure.
Noticed her body's response and just proceeded. Got no resistance.